2018 Yearly Roundup

January 1, 2019January 2, 2019 ~ Ben ~ 4 Comments

Before launching into the new year, I try to reflect on the past one. For me, 2018 was a year of transition. I graduated, I got a job, and I started living on my own.

January

I started in Illinois, but I flew to California immediately to finish the last pieces of my Computer Science degree.

Back at school, I starting learning a technology called Angular. This paid off because:

I programmed my senior project using Angular.
I accepted a job offer at an Angular shop, back in Illinois.

February

Having employment lined up, I focused on my schoolwork. Of course, I also went on lots of hikes.

March

I finished my senior project, I earned my degree, and I hiked up a hill to take this picture of the campus.

The graduation ceremony wasn’t until summer, so I ran in a local 10K as a symbolic victory lap.

Then I drove back to Urbana, Illinois.

The timing worked out to spend Easter in Boulder, visiting my family and friends.

April

Back in Illinois

I attended the U of I Web con. This year, I’m going to be one of the speakers!
I started my new job!
I ran in the Illinois 10K. I’m going to do this again in 2019.

I barely had time to catch my breath before…

May

I flew back to California for a big family reunion!

photo by Laurie Kantor Finn <- one of my distant cousins

There were relatives from this side of family who hadn’t seen me since I was eight years old. It was a fun weekend.

June

Graduation Ceremony

I made one more trip to California this year, to attend my graduation ceremony.

A bittersweet moment indeed, because it felt like closing a chapter of my life.

July

Two of my best friends, Ray and Maria, married each other! I was asked to provide music along my brothers – what a treat to be part of that day.

August

My Autumn months were about getting into the Midwest mindset. I participated in lots of local events.

A weekend of board games at Gen Con, in Indianapolis.
Giving speeches at a local Toastmasters club.
Performing music at the Sweet Corn Festival. This was especially fun because I’ve been going to this event since I was a kid.

September

I moved out of my parents’ house to a place in Champaign, closer to where I work.

Then, I had my 10 year high school reunion.

“I can’t believe it’s been 10 years!”

I finished up the month with a visit to Chicago, and attended a local arts festival. The festival had a hackathon portion and my team got third place. We made a website about the local election.

Shedd Aquarium in Chicago.

Tesla Coil Performance in Urbana

October

This was a super busy month for me, in the best of ways.

Visited Chicago again and went to the Museum of Modern Art
Got my SCUBA certification
Went to lot of Halloween parties

Halloween Jam at the Pineapple Collective

November

My brothers and I play 1930’s style jazz music, in a band we call the Hot Club of Urbana.

We played a mini-concert for our relatives who visited during Thanksgiving.

We also had two paid gigs this month. Playing music so often might be the best perk of living in the same town as my family.

The Iron Post

Urbana Free Library

December

To top off a great year, my family vacationed in Costa Rica for Christmas.

Looking Back on 2018

Looking at my previous roundup post from last year, I hit these goals:

Graduating
Running a 10k – I ran two!
Contributing to an open souce project – I fixed a bug.
Playing more violin – accomplished with the help of my brothers

The goals I failed were:

Blogging often – I ended the year with only 5 new posts
Buying a new desk to help with my back pain
Replacing my bedtime phone habit with books
Reading 20 books – I read 14

Looking Forward to 2019

My resolution is to create a website for my band. It sounds fun to combine my music and programming into something new and personal.

I’m also setting these goals for myself:

Run a 10K in under an hour
Read 15 books
Redesign this blog. It’s still using a default theme.
Record music and post it online. I perform plenty, but recording is a different skill.
Get an adjustable standing desk for work
Sleep more than 7 hours a day on average. My alarm app tells me I’m only getting 6.5 hours
Contribute more open source code

Final Thoughts

2018 had me completing big life milestones left and right. I don’t expect this next year to feel as groundbreaking, nor do I need it to be either.

I plan to be in the Champaign-Urbana area for all of 2019. I’d like at least a year without feeling like I have each foot in a different state.

I want 2019 to be about consistency. I’m in a good spot, so a nice consistent year would let me finish my 20’s with a lot to be grateful for.

Happy New Years dear readers! Good luck in all your 2019 endeavors.

Book Review: Real-World SRE

November 19, 2018December 9, 2018 ~ Ben ~ Leave a comment

I picked up Real-World SRE: The Survival Guide for Responding to a System Outage and Maximizing Uptime, as a crash course in the field (and also because I know the author from college). I assumed it would be about expensive technology, dire consequences, and the drive for 99.9999% uptime.

Turns out, reliability in the real world is:

Identifying problems
Learning to fix them
Growing from the process

Any developer can benefit from this book. The technical sections are paired with functional advice about how to manage time, energy, and expectations. Because of this, I found it surprisingly relevant to my work as a frontend developer.

The topics I enjoyed the most were:

A deep dive into the inner workings of HTTP
UX design for admin dashboards
How to share knowledge between departments

This book convinced me that everyone (even the frontend team) should know where the backups are located. Who would’ve guessed that communication is the trick to reliability.

I’m Gay

October 11, 2018 ~ Ben ~ Leave a comment

Anyone who interacts with me on a regular basis already knows I’m gay. But this is my first time sharing so openly online. My hope is doing so will encourage others in their own journey of coming out.

Myself

Growing up, the idea of me being gay was too anxiety producing to seriously consider. I didn’t start coming out to myself until I was 20 years old.

My Family

Telling my family took some guts, even when I knew deep down I would be accepted. I finally realized that keeping this secret was affecting my mental health. What a relief it was when I told my brothers, my parents, and my extended family.

My Friends

Today, I make it a point of pride to come out to my friends, my coworkers, and my neighbors. I figure being open about who I am helps fight the stigma. As an added bonus, coming out repeatedly lets me tally up confidence points.

The Internet

My coming out journey has included a parallel journey of coming into the LGBTQIA+ community. Nothing has helped my confidence more than seeing others like me succeed. This is why I’m coming out to the Internet today. I know who I am, and I want to thank my family and my community by sharing this feeling with the world.

“rainbow flag on white background : harvey milk plaza, san francisco (2012)” by torbakhopper is licensed under CC BY 2.0

I Graduated

July 10, 2018October 10, 2018 ~ Ben ~ 1 Comment

My first time taking classes at Cal Poly was in 2008, but I stopped attending regularly in 2012. I spent a couple years embracing the identity of being a Computer Science dropout, living at home, and working odd jobs. Time rekindled my desire to have a degree, and in 2016 I began completing the requirements I had left. So I was accompanied by a feeling of slight disbelief when I found myself flying back to California — to graduate as part of the class of 2018.

The ceremony had the desired effect of making my graduation feel like a reality:

The caps
The gowns
The fold-out chairs
The astroturf
The streamer cannons
The speeches
And the Cal Poly band

The commencement speaker was Andrew Jassy, the CEO of AWS (Amazon’s cloud computing service). It seemed to fit the occasion that the key message I took away from his speech was patience, especially in regards to my upcoming career.

The Computer Science department also held a smaller, more intimate ceremony. The professors faces lit up with big smiles when they saw me. Over the years, they had observed me in and out of their halls. Every student had a chance to talk into the mic. When my turn came, I thanked the advising center for sending me that initial email in 2016 asking me to return. I thanked Cal Poly for keeping my credits around for 10 years. I thanked my parents and grandparents for supporting me throughout the entire journey.

After the ceremony, my family treated me to a California steakhouse. I ordered the biggest, best-tasting steak I’ve ever had. I couldn’t finish it, so I ate more for dinner the following night. But I couldn’t even finish it then either, and I ended up leaving the last piece of steak behind.

I felt like I was leaving a part of my heart behind in California too. Maybe one day I’ll be back. For now, I’m looking forward to spending some time in Illinois. Playing lots of music, and spending time with my friends and family. I want to become more involved in the local tech scene. And finally, I want to continue blogging, because this is an adventure worth sharing.

I Got Hired

January 26, 2018January 26, 2018 ~ Ben ~ 1 Comment

I recently accepted a job offer at Pavlov Media, in Urbana-Champaign. After I finish my degree, I’ll start working there as a front-end web developer. I’m excited to return to my hometown, but I’m even more excited to call myself a college graduate and a professional software developer. These new identities are quite the boost to my ego.

My ego is telling me I’m at nearing the end of a great journey. I’m finally graduating, and I’ve landed a real developer job. Instead of this mindset, I’d like to think this is only the beginning of my journey. I want to be humble as I enter the industry. To remind myself, allow me to share two moments where my self-pride as a programmer has gotten the better of me.

I used to help run a website for Cal Poly’s campus radio station. I’d get emails telling me to post announcements and events, and I’d be unhappy when the descriptions for these events were not written yet. “I’m a programmer, but I’m being asked to do marketing”. I’d grumble and hastily write what was needed. I didn’t realize it at the time, but I’m sure the quality of my writing was affected by my resentment. Since then, I’ve become more open to practicing non-technical skills.

I’ve also learned not to equate my programming skills with my own self worth. When this happens, I don’t respond well to constructive criticism. During a code review at an internship, I remember being upset at one of my features being cut. Because my feature was deemed unnecessary, I felt unnecessary. But there was really no reason to take it personally. My pride prevented me from gracefully moving on.

I’m will try to take these lessons to heart as I start working at Pavlov Media. Thanks for reading and I’ll keep you all updated on how it goes.

“View of Downtown Urbana” by Daniel Schwen is licensed under CC BY-SA 4.0

2017 Yearly Roundup

January 1, 2018January 2, 2018 ~ Ben ~ 1 Comment

Today is January 1st and this blog turns 1 year old today. My resolution from last year was to blog weekly. I didn’t quite make my goal, but that’s all the more reason to write a yearly roundup! I was inspired by my friend Nat who does a similar style article every year. Kind of like sending out Christmas cards.

January

My family and I flew out to California to visit my grandparents, but also to finish my Cal Poly paperwork for my return. Then I celebrated my birthday with friends Emma and Sven who were traveling down the coast.

This month a close friend passed away unexpectedly. I tried to pour my focus into my class at the University of Illinois.

February

Mainly I was busy with group projects for my class, Operating Systems. My team members were entrenched in the student mindset, which I happily fed off of. We’d meet at Merry Ann’s diner and code into the night.

March

I visited Chicago twice, at the beginning and end of the month. First was visiting my cousin Sophia who goes to the University of Chicago. The second time was to visit my friend Tyler, who teaches high school in the area. We had a pretty mild winter, no snow to be seen at this point. Also, my Operating Systems midterm went well.

April

At first, I couldn’t remember much from April other than doing my taxes (and playing the new Zelda). But looking through my pictures I can tell the weather was getting warmer. I went on some walks and my friends were having cookouts. In Illinois, people jump at the first signs of Spring to spend time outdoors.

May

I finished my classes. To celebrate, I went up to Chicago again, this time for Anime Central. I’d never been to an anime convention before, I met lots of cool folks, saw some cool costumes.

June

The local farmers market started so my brothers and I busked on the weekends. It gets hot playing up a storm, so I was grateful for the powerful AC at my mall job afterwards. I’d get a cold brewed coffee from the market, and then lead game demos outside the store. What a great combo and a great memory.

July

I went to Chicago again, this time for Pokemon Go Fest. The actual event had technical issues, but I still got to wander around downtown with my family and friends.

Near the end of the month I visited a friend in Atlanta for the first time. I hiked up a hill with my violin and played music with a hula dancer by chance.

August

Playing at the farmer’s market got us a gig at a goat farm!

My family also continued our tradition of going to Gen Con, a board game convention in Indianapolis. There we saw a They Might Be Giants concert,. and the timing was right for driving south to the solar eclipse afterwards. Unfortunately, a cloud covered up the sun at the exact wrong time.

September

I drove from Illinois to California because it was time for classes at Cal Poly, the final step in getting my degree. I was anxious, as technically I was crashing one of the classes. But things went smoothly, I made it to San Luis Obispo on a rainy day, and started school a week later.

SLO life is good and I feel pretty much right at home here.

October

Right before the month began, my Dad flew out to visit, and near the end of the month my Mom flew out for a short visit as well. If there’s any reason I’m doing well it’s all the support I get. My main class was about ethics in software, and I ended up with several papers that will easily become future blog posts.

November

Even with my classes in the bag, I found it difficult not to stress over the final projects. I flew home briefly for Thanksgiving, which gave a nice reprise from school. The quarter ended with A’s and I only have my senior project left to earn my degree. I’m feeling pretty proud!

December

December was a whirlwind. First, a flight back to Illinois through Chicago where I saw some friends at a convention. Afterwards, down to Urbana to visit more. Finally, I traveled to Hawaii with my grandparents and family to celebrate Christmas.

Looking Back on 2017

Wow. I mean, I moved further along my degree this year than the previous four. Working at a board game store was overall great and I think I’m a better salesman than before. Driving cross country made me realize I’m older. Last time I drove that far I could go longer without the same soreness and fatigue. In general I sit too often, but otherwise I did a pretty good job keeping active physically and mentally in 2017.

Books

I listened to most of my books through an Audible subscription. Mainly self-help style books and podcasts that make for easy listening in the car. War of Art, which is about procrastination, was my favorite and I listened to it twice. The book that engrossed me the most was a dystopian sci-fi series, Red Rising, and I am betting it will end up being made into a movie.

For next year, I think I can finish at least 20 books. Especially if I start using my Kindle more.

Music

Last.fm says I only listened to 1,740 songs, which seems incredibly low. I must have been only tracking MP3s played on my phone. But either way, the top 3 albums reported were ones I enjoyed a lot. Spirit Phone is silly but still hits me hard, Sufjan Stevens is required listening for anyone who enjoys the Midwest, and Ghosting’s album samples all the Miyazaki films’ soundtracks.

I also saw some live music, most notably Andrew Bird (who makes me really want to learn to sing), Cashmere Cat, and They Might Be Giants.

Looking Forward to 2018

I’m definitely getting my degree in March, and I’m curious to see where that degree will take me. I’d love to stay in SLO. Regardless, I’m getting my software development career moving again.

My official New Year’s Resolution is to write more articles here. I have gotten a lot better at writing in the past year, but I’m still not satisfied with how I approach this strange art form. I’m going to publish 2 more articles this month, and will reevaluate my frequency on Jan 31st.

Some other mini goals I have:

Music. People enjoy my violin so much, I ought to honor that and practice more. I could also practice voice seriously, for the sake of those who live around me.
Running. I’m actually pretty good at endurance running, and I learned about a 10k run this Spring in SLO. Might be a great way to celebrate graduating.
Stretching. This quarter I spent so much time coding in my chair that my neck and back suffered. Gotta do more stretches and also buy a new chair/desk this year.
Using my phone less. I want to replace my bedtime phone habit with book reading.
Open Source contributing. I keep seeing articles about doing this, just choose a project and run with it.

Final Thoughts

Lots of things to accomplish, and it’s tricky to think about the large scope of it all. I’ll try to take things one day at a time. Tonight is a supermoon, and that’s gotta be a good omen. My Dad took a picture of it rising over a snowy field, which strikes me as the correct way to sign off this post and start 2018. Thanks for reading.

Drawing Power from Your Own Inexperience

September 15, 2017September 15, 2017 ~ Ben ~ 1 Comment

A month into my summer internship, I booted up my work PC for the first time.

No computer for a month at a software engineering internship? At the time, the company was hiring new employees faster than the support team could set up computers. Days passed, weeks passed, as I waited for a PC to magically appear in my office. I twiddled my thumbs, edited the development wiki, and sat in on meetings. The first month of my internship was wasting away as I waited.

Only once did I go downstairs and meekly ask. “When is my PC going to be ready?” The overworked tech support team told me to be patient.

Now, I take full responsibility for this wasted month.

I ought to have explained I was there for a three month internship, and I needed a PC immediately in order to even get started. But in my head, I had a voice telling me the actual employees had priority. They could produce real work, and I couldn’t. So why should I care if my computer arrived on time? They had more important things to worry about.

I thought being an intern meant I had to accept the wait. In reality, being an intern was one of my greatest assets. People will go out of their way to help the intern. All you have to do is ask.

My poor communication continued into the rest of the internship.

I sent out vague mass emails when trying to get hold of needed files. I journeyed the high-rise, searching through cubicles instead of setting up meetings. I had agreed to a project that was way above my skill level; using statistical analysis to categorize information. But I never made that fact clear to my managers. I was lost.

With my mindset, I couldn’t ask for help without feeling like I was interrupting the real engineers. They were in crunch mode, trying to get their product completed by the holiday season. My little problems couldn’t possibly be worth their time. Going back to my desk and working alone became preferable.

It’s not a surprise the summer ended without a finished project. But I did leave with a lesson. If you feel inexperienced at your job, you can use that to your advantage. Put your inexperience out there like you’re proud of it. You deserve extra help because of it.

Being Too Agreeable is a Recipe for Chaos

September 8, 2017September 10, 2017 ~ Ben ~ Leave a comment

A couple years ago I worked at a smoothie shop on a college campus. More than my juice blending skills, I got to practice my customer interaction skills.

One interaction involved a frantic search for a missing piece of an orange juicer. My efforts were fruitless. Soon the impatient customer demanded a refund, but I had no clue how to issue refunds. Regardless, I spent the next moments panicking and poking at the buttons on the register. When my manager finally showed up to save the day, she calmly denied the refund, pulled the missing part from the drying rack, and made the juice.

Another time, I arrived at work on a Sunday to find customers waiting outside. We didn’t open for another half-hour, but they were late for some event and I was overly eager to help. I let them in and made their smoothies. At the time, it seemed like I was going above and beyond my obligations as an employee. The customer comes first, right? It took my manager’s scolding afterwards to realize that I had gone beyond what I was allowed to do as an employee.

Being too agreeable is a recipe for chaos. In both cases, my customers would have been better served by bluntness rather than empathy. I should have told the first customer that the orange juicer wasn’t working today. I should have told the early birds that the store was closed. I’m pretty sure by helping them, I further delayed the event they were late to.

Fast food is an endless stream of busywork. With queues out the door and wait times up to ten minutes, it’s difficult to not feel rushed. But being rushed never helped. I would spill smoothies and mix up orders. The more hurried I acted, the more often my customers grew impatient. I had to learn a new mindset. Everyone would get their juice eventually. I could deliver drinks with a smile, and it almost seemed like my customers became more accepting of the wait as well.

It’s worth preserving my serenity over fixing every problem thrown in my path. I learned I can’t please everyone. Setting business boundaries allows me to provide a more consistent service. I’m grateful for this lesson, and hope to remember it often.

Of course, the greatest lesson was how to make a mean smoothie.

iFixit Grab Bag

May 25, 2017September 10, 2017 ~ Ben ~ 1 Comment

Coding can be hard. But it can be made easier by writing out the designs beforehand. What follows is some designs for a current project.

The Project

iFixit is an awesome website about repair. This idea is a tiny web app for new users to see what sort of content iFixit has. The user will put their phone, laptop, and other devices they own into a “Grab Bag”. Then the app will display repair guides and parts for sale that match those devices. Sounds simple enough.

Requirements

During an internship with iFixit, I got to travel to Makerfaire. I stood in front of a monitor, explaining the website to people. I want this webapp to offer that experience, without me as a developer having to stand there and do the explaining.

This gives me several requirements to consider

Inviting – If this app was open on a monitor at a convention, I want it to look like it’s meant to be spontaneously used. It should look like a demo, not a product ordering page.
Self-explanatory – There shouldn’t have to be a representative explaining what iFixit does. Though, I’m not against having light text direction inside the app.
No typing – It would be nice if the app was mouse-based. People at conventions don’t always have both hands free. They might be carrying a drink or a swag bag.
Quickness over Thoroughness – The demo should be succinct. It’s okay if the user doesn’t find their exact phone brand in the grab bag. The main iFixit web page already has a great hierarchy system for finding specific devices. I don’t want to attempt a rewrite of what already works.

Specification

First Draft

device pics from iFixit.com — Device icons from iFixit.com

Here’s what I thought about the design.

Checkboxes aren’t very interactive. This looks like a form.
I really should put everything on the same screen. It might be harder to design though.
Having to wait till the end to see the relevant statistics is no good.
The sum total of guides doesn’t strike me as useful. The guides and parts have interesting titles and pictures that I’d like to show that.

Second Draft

Oh gosh, this ended up looking very confusing.

My idea was to have the left side of the screen be devices orbiting around the logo, and the right side be content rising out of the grab bag for the user’s selected devices.
It’s extremely cluttered. More white space is needed to make this divide more obvious.
Maybe the grab bag should be on the top instead of bottom, with the repair guides falling down out of it?
I’m not sure how to decide which devices to show, and likewise which repair guides to show. I was thinking of allowing the user to scroll through them. But if I’m worried about clutter, I don’t think I need more buttons.

Even so there are 3 features here that I like:

The devices continuously floating onto the screen. That way the page could be left open to be used at a whim. There’s no need to reset the page after a user is done.
The drag and drop for selecting devices. Who doesn’t like drag and drop?
The repair guides folding out from the grab bag after the user drops a device into it. Confetti is optional.

I’m going to start coding, keeping in mind I want those features. Once I have a working prototype, I hope it’s more obvious how to rearrange things to reduce clutter.

Final Thoughts

Sharing this process helps me stay grounded in the scope of the project. Maybe I’ll even get some feedback before it’s completed. And best of all, the motivation and accountability to work quickly.

What Being Sober for 2 Years Feels Like

May 3, 2017September 10, 2017 ~ Ben ~ 2 Comments

May 3rd marks 2 years of sobriety for me. I haven’t had a drink or a smoke in this time. I want to celebrate the accomplishment by speaking about the experience.

Ups And Downs

When I first began, every month was a new milestone. My motivation grew as I completed the goals I set for myself. But with more time under my belt. I’ve realized that my willpower levels don’t correspond to my clean time. My resolve ebbs and flows. So on days like today, I make it part of my identity. I embrace it. And then on days when I’m unsure, I embrace the uncertainty. Who knows where my journey will take me? It’s acceptable for sobriety to be a vague answer to an undefined problem. Experience has taught me, there’s usually something to motivate me just around the corner.

Boredom

When I first quit drinking, I was too scared to set foot in a bar. Eventually, I could comfortably go to a bar and not be tempted to drink. I was pretty pleased with myself. But now, going downtown simply isn’t fun. If there’s dancing or pool tables, I can make do. But in most cases, I end up feeling like a dud. There’s no perfect replacement activity for partying. Instead, I’m constantly picking up new activities. Yoga, electronics, writing this blog, learning new songs. Staying busy is important. Even if I drop hobbies as quickly as I pick them up, at least I’m keeping my life juicy. It’s a solution for the time being.

Community

The best part of sobriety is the new friends I’ve made. Turns out, my hometown has an active local recovery community. Having a support network to fall back on makes life much simpler. A lot of my worries about relapse were solved when I learned how to ask for help. I never acquired this skill in school. Looking back, my internships during college would have gone a lot smoother if I had been open to accepting help. I’ve realized asking for help can help others too. Everyone likes to feel useful, and I’m happy to provide that use.

Quitting drugs and alcohol has allowed me to move towards my goals. This morning, I finished my final for Operating Systems, after failing that same class 4 years ago. I can’t thank my friends and family enough. Thanks for sticking with me and thanks for listening to what I have to say!